OMG THATS YOU IN YOUR AVATAR!!!!!!!! hahaha
Its the first time It actually appears on my comp :P
probably its my sucky conection or my router (I know it secretly hates me ;) ):)
No, it was because of geocities. That's where I had the picture stored. So I moved it to some webspace at verizon.net. Now it's actually working. He he he - you like?
Quote from: mfortunato on November 06, 2003, 02:28:11 PM
No, it was because of geocities. That's where I had the picture stored. So I moved it to some webspace at verizon.net. Now it's actually working. He he he - you like?
yep :) I like it a lot :)
thats in your halloween costume too right? :)
SEE I REMEMBER... ya hairy feets :P
Great costume Mike! So did you have to stoop down a bit to look more like Frodo or were you about the right height? ;)
Nah, I'm pretty short ;). I think Elijah Wood's taller than me - he he he.
haha mike, liar :P
you are not that short :P
I'm an inch taller than E Wood... still a tad short though. ::) I still don't know how some people get to be 6'5'' for instance, that's freaking tall!!!!
Im 5'10'' :D
Oooh, lucky gal, Say! I'm only 5'7". :( My roomie's 5'10, and complains he's too short, but I think he's perfect. I like being on eye level with a guy, not too much taller or shorter. My ex-boyfriend was 6'2", and that was kinda too tall, although he was still a cutie.
Peace & Luv, Liz
yeah I know what your saying, guys do complain a lot! :D
IN GENERAL!! hahaha :P
seriously though when a guy is not 6' they all get like OMG IM SHORT and stuff... I do find it a bit silly, I think its alright equally in girls and boys :P
although in girls its a bit over the average but I dont feel like a giant or special about it :P
;D
I'm only 5'9" :'( But it's ok, I've been this height for the past few years so I've gotten used to it now. I guess it's average, but I still think the average guy is taller than me. ;D
My sisters are 4 years younger and six years younger than me respectively, and they are 1 inch away from my height!!!! Now THAT's scary. :o
Quote from: Yonkey on November 06, 2003, 05:30:06 PMI'm only 5'9" :'( But it's ok, I've been this height for the past few years so I've gotten used to it now.
Aw, don't cry, you're just the right height! :) (hugs)
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: Jeysie on November 06, 2003, 06:00:59 PM
Aw, don't cry, you're just the right height! :) (hugs)
Heheh thanks. I'm just kidding, I don't think I'm short. I wanted to be a bit silly. ;D
Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! :P
Well, OK. I just like any excuse to hug a fella. ;D
Peace & Luv, Liz
I like my height. Just because I say I'm short doesn't mean I don't like it ;D
Actually, I was teasing about the short thing because of me dressing up as a hobbit. I'm just the right height for me, 5' 7".
fun, I can tap mike in the head when he missbehaves then :P
*taps*
I'm the same height as Mike, then. Only I don't have the curly hair... ;)
How do I go from meters and centimeters to your height system?
What I already
do know, is that I'm on the short side. Always was the smallest one in class, as far as boys were concerned ofcourse. No problem though, makes it easy for me to hide amongst the crowd, or slip by someone else.
Quote from: Say on November 07, 2003, 02:22:32 PMmikey its late 20ISH lol :P
Finally someone I can relate to. ;D
30cm = 1 ft, and I think 2.5cm = 1 in. :)
So how many "" are there in one '?
There are 12" in 1'. So I'm 67" tall, which is ~168cm, I think.
Peace & Luv, Liz
I stopped growing when I was 18. Well, I stopped growing taller. Now I'm cultivating my mini-buddah belly. Everyone can rub my belly for good luck! ;D
Quote from: Jeysie on November 07, 2003, 04:51:20 PMThere are 12" in 1'. So I'm 67" tall, which is ~168cm, I think.
Actually, an inch is a bit more than just 2.5, it's actually 2.54 cm to an inch. So 12" in 1' is not possible when the ' is an inch and the ' is a ft. 12 x 2.54 = 30,48. I know, it's not much difference, but I'm a bookkeeper IRL, I have to keep an eye on the decimals.
Anyway, I'm either 167 or 169 cm, so that would make my height about the same of Jeysie's. If ' was 30 cm and " 2.5 I'd be 5' 7"-ish, right? Told you I was small! 8)
Quote from: copycat on November 10, 2003, 03:48:01 PMSo 12" in 1' is not possible when the " is an inch and the ' is a ft. 12 x 2.54 = 30,48.
Hey, I'm just telling you how our measurement system works, I never said it had to make sense. ;D
Quote from: copycat on November 10, 2003, 03:48:01 PMAnyway, I'm either 167 or 169 cm, so that would make my height about the same of Jeysie's.
Hee! You're the same height, and weigh what, 60 pounds less? You make me feel so pudgy! <G>
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: Jeysie on November 10, 2003, 04:05:08 PMHee! You're the same height, and weigh what, 60 pounds less? You make me feel so pudgy! <G>
If you saw my skinny-ness, your pudgy-feel would be gone in a second. ;)
Everyone - just rub my mini-buddah belly and feel better about yourselves.
There, don't you all feel better? I know I do ;D
I'm 5'3" and I love it - tall enough for my purposes! ;)
Aww...I think I'm the shortest one here so far!! Heehee, yay. ;D And 5'10" /5'9" is not short at all guys! You can just make like my friends and use my shoulder and/or head for a leaning post. Seems to make them feel better.
Don't know if I'll enjoy it quite as much as Mike and his belly-rubbing fetish.... ::) ;D
I think I'm around 5'5/5'6 something like that. I'll grow one day...thats what I keep being told anyway :'( 8)
Hee. Yes, you guys are all good heights. :) Despite him being kind of skinny, I think I like CC even better, now... he's exactly my height! ;)
Although I wouldn't have minded being just a couple inches taller, I'm still quite happy with my height. And I'm happy with being big-boned... I like hugs, so it makes it more fun. <G>
You know, between Katie and Mike's fetishes, the KQ9 get-togethers could get weird. ;D
Peace & Luv, Liz
Hey now, I specfically it was NOT a fetish!
But weird, I cannot deny to being.
Head as a leaning post fetish? Now that's something you don't see everyday, even on the Internet. ;D hehehehe j/k
Actually you're about the same height as my mom, Katie. I think she's somewhere around 5'4. ::) It's not extremely short, I know a few girls that are shorter. :P
well girls dont complain, guys seems to love petite girls or something :P
with 5'10'' Im anything but petite lol
Quote from: Jeysie on November 11, 2003, 02:30:23 PM
I think I like CC even better, now... he's exactly my height! ;)
You would LOVE me then - I'm also exactly your height, but my weight is closer to yours than to Copycat's ;D
Hee, but I'm afraid I don't quite swing that way, Storm. ;)
Peace & Luv, Liz
/me sighs in disappointment :P ;D
Lol, first gay hobbits and now this? What's going on around here? ;)
Hey, Storm started it all by saying that Edgar looked girlish! ;D
Peace & Luv, Liz
We should be careful, or this will turn into another "too much information" thread :P
I didn't say Edgar looked girlish, I said his waistline does 8)
Quote from: KatieHal on November 11, 2003, 02:20:49 PMYou can just make like my friends and use my shoulder and/or head for a leaning post. Seems to make them feel better.
Ofcourse it does! What guy wouldn't like leaning on a beautiful girl's shoulder? :D
Quote from: Jeysie on November 11, 2003, 02:30:23 PMDespite him being kind of skinny, I think I like CC even better, now... he's exactly my height! ;)
Yes, my plan is working so far...Oops, did I just type that out loud? ;D
Quote from: Storm on November 11, 2003, 05:09:27 PMI'm also exactly your height, but my weight is closer to yours than to Copycat's ;D
You being heavier than me is normal, because my weight is not.
Quote from: Storm on November 12, 2003, 06:56:21 AMI didn't say Edgar looked girlish, I said his waistline does 8)
Well, at least we agree on that. ;) Though I rather like the clothes and ponytail... I think they're cute. ;D
Quote from: copycat on November 12, 2003, 02:43:12 PMYes, my plan is working so far...
Oops, did I just type that out loud? ;D
Hee! (pats)
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: The Knight on November 12, 2003, 02:55:39 PMI prefer girls around my height.
What's your maximum difference in height (if possible in cms please, but I can do with inches to, it's just that a cm's is less than an inch, so you can be more specific)? :D
Why, CC, are you hitting on TK, too? :suffer:
I'm sorry, I need to learn to behave... :suffer:
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: Jeysie on November 12, 2003, 03:15:14 PMWhy, CC, are you hitting on TK, too? :suffer:
Heaven forbid, no! Just curious (as a feline should be). ;D
Quote from: copycat on November 12, 2003, 03:04:29 PM
Quote from: The Knight on November 12, 2003, 02:55:39 PMI prefer girls around my height.
What's your maximum difference in height (if possible in cms please, but I can do with inches to, it's just that a cm's is less than an inch, so you can be more specific)? :D
Most guys wouldn't want a girl who's taller than them. Unless she's a model ;)
I don't mind girls that are upto 6" shorter than me but no more than 2" taller. I prefer girls slightly shorter than me than someone the exact same height or taller. 8)
whats your height knight
I prefer girls that I can hug without it being awkward (ie my face going in her spheres of affection in a straight hug might be awkward ;)).
have you ever dated someone taller than you knight?
I do agree on the height difference thing, I think it is somewhat ackward both ways (as bushie's example) lol :P
Copycat - Awww :) Thanks!
TK -Heeey.... :P
Oldbushie - Gotta say, bushie...*most* guys think of that as a good thing! ;D
hahahaha, about what katie? to hug girls and "hug and face" their "spheres of affection"? lol, funny :P
Quote from: KatieHal on November 13, 2003, 08:33:13 AM
Oldbushie - Gotta say, bushie...*most* guys think of that as a good thing! ;D
Lol! Yeah, I wouldn't mind that myself, as long as I don't suffocate ;) (though what a way to go that would be... ;)).
I dated a girl quite a bit taller than me. WAY back Freshmen (or was it Sophomore) in HS. I was 5'5" or 5'6" then and she was 5'10" or 5'11" (I don't remember exactly). She was an amazon (like secsay Say).
Of course, we broke up because we realized we were better friends than anything else - there wasn't much chemistry. We've stayed friends to this day. Junior year she freaked me out because she pulled me aside and told me she needed to tell me something very important - I thought she was dying. I thought she was going to tell me that she had some sort of disease. It took her two hours to tell me that she believed she was gay! When she finally got that out I was like "That's it? That's all??? OMG! I thought you were dying or something!!! You're gay! That's great! That's not a big deal. We can go looking for girls together (she has GREAT taste in women)." She laughed. She felt relieved and then came out and all was well. Ah - high school.
Heh heh. Yeah, and I bet she was able to give you some good pointers as well in how to find women, as you are definitely happily married now. ;)
Quote from: mfortunato on November 13, 2003, 02:25:03 PM
I dated a girl quite a bit taller than me. WAY back Freshmen (or was it Sophomore) in HS. I was 5'5" or 5'6" then and she was 5'10" or 5'11" (I don't remember exactly). She was an amazon (like secsay Say).
OMG :D *blushes*
Ill take that as a complement :P lol, wtf amazon Im not an amazon (or secsay) hahaha, but thanks :)
Correct me if I'm wrong (geography is not one of my strong sides) but I thought the Amazon forest was located in Brazil, thus Say's an amazon. :D
hahahaha!! :D
erm, haha yeah it is, but as close as venezuela is from brazil I still dont think Im an amazon :P
AMAZON GIRL :O
Lmao, spheres of affection... They're not really... Yanno... "Spherish"... Or that could just be me.
Oh, and I'm 5' 4.5" - just to be VERY awkward, lol. But that's me all over. Awkward git.
They're close enough to spheres, though I haven't examined them enough to tell for sure. ::)
Heh. I never quite understood the obsession with ultra-huge breasts. Maybe it's just because I lack the hormonal bias, but I've always found the sight of breasts larger than the woman's physique would naturally warrant to be rather ugly. Large breasts are nice, but only if they fit with the rest of the woman's build, instead of making it look like she'd snap in half if you tapped her shoulders too hard to one side. And very few skinny girls have naturally large breasts, it's usually just the fat/chubby and/or big-boned girls, which most men don't seem to like. ;)
Peace & Luv, Liz
ugh yeah your so right jeysie, but IMHO I do find - really large- breast to be a bit ackward, I mean, I think there is a limit when it goes a bit out of normal, no matter in what body :P
I'm always worried that those girls will fall over in a strong wind. ;)
I prefer proper proportions myself, tiny is as good as big as long as it fits the physique. ;D
Lol!
I personally think that guys should actually prop their heads up so they can actually see girl's faces... Or maybe, even better, like a girl based on their *gasp* PERSONALITY?!
It's a thought :)
Hee. I dunno. I never get mad at guys staring at my breasts, just amused. Besides, if I'm stuck having to "carry" them around, somebody might as well at least get a bit of enjoyment out of them. :suffer:
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: oldbushie on November 16, 2003, 10:33:53 PM
I'm always worried that those girls will fall over in a strong wind. ;)
At least they'll have a soft landing :P
I dig a girl's personality! I just get slightly distracted sometimes, especially if a girl dresses very immodestly... ;)
Quote from: Jeysie on November 17, 2003, 11:44:10 AM
Hee. I dunno. I never get mad at guys staring at my breasts, just amused. Besides, if I'm stuck having to "carry" them around, somebody might as well at least get a bit of enjoyment out of them. :suffer:
UGH I SO HATE THAT, I hate guys staring at things noone freaking asked them to, plus if i dont like the guy or he pisses me off or annoys me wtf slap! >:(
Heh. Honestly, I decided a while ago that getting all worked up over a guy who's being a real perv isn't worth it. I mean, think about it... no woman worth getting is going to go with a guy who acts like that to her. So I just shrug it off and laugh at what a moron the guy is being. If you do feel the need to say something, just go over and say something like "You know, you might almost be cute, but there's no way in Hell a girl as fine with me would get with a guy acting like you. So you should learn to shape up, or sleep alone." Then just walk off. ;D
Or you could even have some fun playing along with it. I got many afternoons of enjoyment as a teen playing with the mind of this one guy who used to always try to get me to sleep with him. :suffer:
Before you think ill of me, I'd never, ever play with a guy who I thought genuinely liked me... I've had far too much unrequited love myself to ever do that to someone, plus being cruel isn't in my nature. But honestly, if a guy is busy just thinking with his pants, I don't feel bad messing with his head (the one on his shoulders, natch) a bit.
Peace & Luv, Liz
Hee. Well, I don't have a problem with somebody scoping me out... how else you gonna engage in a bit of flirting? I meant the guys who really go overboard with the leering and catcalling, where it's blatantly obvious they're solely looking for someone to engage in the "horizontal polka" with. ;) I mean, even "nice guys" want sex at some point (well, the vast majority, anyway), but at least "nice guys" are interested in limiting said friskiness to the right person to spend non-bed-romp time with as well. ;D
I totally love men... I'm definitely not the nutso militant feminist type who plants a steel toe in any guy who even looks at her. I do like when a guy thinks I'm pretty.
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: Jeysie on November 17, 2003, 07:20:37 PMI'm definitely not the nutso militant feminist type who plants a steel toe in any guy who even looks at her.
Ahh, that would be me ::)
But I don't need to use any toeing. I have other ways to make them stop ;)
Quote from: The Knight on November 17, 2003, 07:35:46 PMI'm sick of all the girls that won't stop talking about how hot some guys butt is. So both genders do it. But not all of them.
Like me. :D :D
I never said I approved of women treating men superficially, either. Just that Say complained about men who leer at her, so I commented on that specifically. I play at being a drooling fangirl sometimes if I know my surroundings are open to that sort of humor, and I'll flirt shamelessly if I know the guy I'm flirting with is just joking around too. But I wouldn't humiliate or disrespect a guy.
Peace & Luv, Liz
Yeah, that's the most important thing! I always respect people I'm around, though it's tricky with people who downcast me. I may rub elbows with a girl sometimes ;), but I still give her plenty of respect and I don't leer obtrusively.
"R-E-S-P-E-C-T, do you have respect for me?" -can't remember the singer though. :P
Some girls make me wonder what kind of respect they want, though. Apparently last year a girl dressed up in clear Saran wrap and nothing else one day, and there was a crowd of guys around her staring. I missed it though, probably because I have a natural tendency to avoid crowds... ::)
Heh. I always wonder about those women who wear scanty clothing and then whine because men are staring at them. I don't fall into the "She was asking for it" camp, but seriously, if you don't want to be stared at, why exactly are you walking around with your "assets" in near-full display?
Granted, in hot weather you may not want to wear as much. But there are ways to dress to keep yourself cool without looking "saucy", if you so desire. (I should know, I've employed many of them myself.) And if you have skin showing, well... anyone with hormones is going to stare at someone with a lot of skin showing, whether it's a man or woman doing the staring, or a man or woman being stared at. If you're attractive, what's wrong with other people looking at you, anyway? You could wrap yourself in a cocoon and never let anyone except your family and spouse see *any* part of you at all, but where's the fun in that?
I personally dress modestly, but flatteringly. I seldom wear stuff with even a moderate amount of skin showing (mostly because the flashiness inherent in showing a lot of skin doesn't suit my dislike for the spotlight), but I try to buy stuff cut to flatter my shape. I'll let the vast majority enjoy the basic way I look, if they are of the mind to do so, and save the real show for a guy I really like. And like I said, I don't have much personal use for my breasts, so somebody else may as well like them. Let the guys in general stare, and a guy I really like... well, ya know. ;) Why should I get uptight? I have more important things to worry about. I think people need to get a grip about sexuality in general. I don't think it's a good idea to treat sexuality as something completely casual to share freely with anyone, but neither is it good to treat it as completely bad.
Peace & Luv, Liz
I agree, sexuality in general is good, at least when shared with the right person and not given out like candy.
well usually as I've seen the woman that wear that way its becuase they wanna be seen alright! :D but some of those that care to show too much no matter what, tend to fall into terms as erm... trashy or slutty when they over do it :-X
I personally strongly dislike concepts as trashy, slutty and even like... erm... -showing way too much- sort of like? :P, Im very picky about how I look, Im a freak taking care of my hair, my skin, and yeah also my clothing, and I tend to avoid tendencies that as to put it nicely, just doesnt quite is my style :-\, thats perhaps why I avoid it a bit myself, I think thats a lame attempt to get attention, and as very well you guys said, you can be sexy and attractive in so many ways that... why to do such thing anyways?, I so cant understand those kind of women myself :-\
plus sexuality its not in what you wear, its in how you are ;)
Quote from: oldbushie on November 17, 2003, 08:37:49 PM
"R-E-S-P-E-C-T, do you have respect for me?" -can't remember the singer though. :P
Aretha Franklin.
I like dressing nice and knowing I look sexy, but I don't want to nor do I dress to look slutty. Gotta have some mystery there to still look good and make them interested in more! And to have to work to know you for that, too! ;-)
Well, sometimes a good butt is hard to find. And harder to see. I mean, with girls, there it is, right out for everyone to see, here's my chest! And it makes it easier for the perv guys to have a conversation without hardly looking at you. now what would they think if we had conversations and never stopped looking at their crotch or something? Sheesh!
Power to the classy sexy ladies, girlz!
:-* ;D
Quote from: KatieHal on November 18, 2003, 11:42:58 AMnow what would they think if we had conversations and never stopped looking at their crotch or something? Sheesh!
(keels over laughing for a bit)
Actually, that reminds me of one day when me and a few of my gal pals were walking along playing an impromptu game of "Have you ever?". One gal asked, "Have you ever looked at a guy and wondered... ya know... how big he is down there?" We all sheepishly raised our hands. <G>
Peace & Luv, Liz
My own experience, I find it flattering when someone "looks me over", either male or female (especially female - he he he). If someone finds me attractive, I'll take it as a compliment. A quick look is what I'm talking about. Not the ridiculous staring at you like you are a piece of meat.
Living in NYC, I get scoped out by WAY too many GUYS. Like I said, I have no problem with them glancing. I will look at them and smile - thank you for thinking me attractive. And I move on. It's when they STARE........and same with women. When they STARE..............like they are undressing me with their eyes. You can almost see what they're thinking - it's as if their eyes have become tiny television sets and you can see the porno playing out. Not my cup of tea. I don't like it and I won't do it to anyone else. Besides, I watched a guy staring at a girl intensely as she walked by. He turned around to look at her from behind as she kept walking. While he did this, he was still moving forward and he wasn't looking where he was going. He ran into a no parking sign. Slammed right into it and fell to the ground. I laughed so hard.
This doesn't mean I don't look ;). Women are beautiful - pretty much every shape and size. I love to look. And I like to make eye contact with someone I find attractive and smile at them. If they smile back - bonus.
I am happily married to Amy and she never has to fear me suddenly running off with someone - I have absolutely no desire to do so and never will (I'm very certain of this). I can't even imagine my life without her. But I will look. And so will she (and she does). I think it's healthy, natural and FUN :D.
After all, we are God's artwork. Should we not enjoy seeing his creations? ;)
I don't think I've ever been looked over by guys, that's kinda disturbing. :P But then, I'm a tad homophobic when it comes to blatantly homosexual acts like a guy staring at me or some weird guy trying to get a little too "close" to me. :P:P:P:P:P I prefer girls any day, they have better cushioning. ;)
Quote from: mfortunato on November 18, 2003, 02:40:13 PM
My own experience, I find it flattering when someone "looks me over", either male or female (especially female - he he he). If someone finds me attractive, I'll take it as a compliment. A quick look is what I'm talking about. Not the ridiculous staring at you like you are a piece of meat.
OMFG SECSAY MIKE, even guys check him out :D
Quote from: mfortunato on November 18, 2003, 02:40:13 PM
Living in NYC, I get scoped out by WAY too many GUYS. Like I said, I have no problem with them glancing. I will look at them and smile - thank you for thinking me attractive. And I move on. It's when they STARE........and same with women. When they STARE..............like they are undressing me with their eyes. You can almost see what they're thinking - it's as if their eyes have become tiny television sets and you can see the porno playing out. Not my cup of tea. I don't like it and I won't do it to anyone else.
Yeah I find that a bit perverted alright, plus that IT IS uncomfortable :-\ no matter what
Quote from: mfortunato on November 18, 2003, 02:40:13 PM
This doesn't mean I don't look ;). Women are beautiful - pretty much every shape and size. I love to look. And I like to make eye contact with someone I find attractive and smile at them. If they smile back - bonus.
I am happily married to Amy and she never has to fear me suddenly running off with someone - I have absolutely no desire to do so and never will (I'm very certain of this). I can't even imagine my life without her. But I will look. And so will she (and she does). I think it's healthy, natural and FUN :D.
Love is sooo much more than just attraction and it is hard to find that unique conection, its not just what you want and what and what you need what this person has to have, should also have the will to make things though, since nothing its easy its not just to find something precious, I think the hardest part its to make it grow and keep it, so when you do, its not to give things for granted but more like you do know who is next to you and what this person means to you leading to the fact to show yourself true and honest about your own feelings to that someone, if both sides click so good then they are a team so whatever happens that sort of things mean nothing at all since whats buildt its just better than that.
Quote from: Say on November 18, 2003, 05:27:58 PM
Love is sooo much more than just attraction and it is hard to find that unique conection........ so when you do, ......... if both sides click so good then they are a team so whatever happens that sort of things mean nothing at all since whats buildt its just better than that.
I shortened your quote a bit, Say. But I MOST HEARTEDLY AGREE!
Quote from: Jeysie on November 17, 2003, 07:20:37 PMcatcalling,
Who's calling who a cat?
I'm the only cat around here! ;D
I can safely say really big breasts absolutely do not appeal to me. Normal proportions is just fine for me too, no problem. Besides, the first thing I
look at is not the breasts, but the head, and more especially the hair. ;) After that I go down to the face, and take a quick glance on the rest of her body, but most definitely I will never
stare at a woman's breasts, especially not if I'm talking to her.
Every relationship needs to grow. As I get to know the other one better, I also reveal more personal information about myself, it evolves. The more I feel at ease, the more information I let out, but there are always some things that are
absolutely personal/private so they remain in my own posession. And, ofcourse, different situations call for different behaviour, that's only normal.
Quote from: copycat on November 19, 2003, 03:15:43 PMBesides, the first thing I look at is not the breasts, but the head, and more especially the hair. ;) After that I go down to the face, and take a quick glance on the rest of her body, but most definitely I will never stare at a woman's breasts, especially not if I'm talking to her.
That sounds a little like me with men. First thing I notice about a guy is his hair, then his smile, then his eyes. (Then his voice, although that's obviously not a visual thing.) I honestly actually almost never really look at a guy's body. The only time a guy's body really registers with me is if it's extremely *something*, extremely tall or short, extremely skinny or fat, extremely built, etc. In which case, the fact that it's attracted my attention is probably not a good thing.
Peace & Luv, Liz
The first thing I see is the smile, then the hair perhaps.
Quote from: Jeysie on November 19, 2003, 03:35:09 PMThat sounds a little like me with men. First thing I notice about a guy is his hair, then his smile, then his eyes. (Then his voice, although that's obviously not a visual thing.) I honestly actually almost never really look at a guy's body. The only time a guy's body really registers with me is if it's extremely *something*, extremely tall or short, extremely skinny or fat, extremely built, etc. In which case, the fact that it's attracted my attention is probably not a good thing.
/me wonders whether his body is extremely skinny. Thinks about taking another picture of him in full.
Not even a
glance at the body Jeysie? Surely, if you see someone's body is "extreme" you must have glanced.
Quote from: copycat on November 19, 2003, 04:21:35 PMNot even a glance at the body Jeysie? Surely, if you see someone's body is "extreme" you must have glanced.
Which is why I said "almost never really look". :) I notice a guy's shape kind of in the same way I would notice, say, a wall... I see it, but it doesn't really impinge upon my conscious thinking unless there's something extremely eye-catching about it (whether in a good way or a bad way).
I do notice the way a guy dresses, as in his style of clothing. Although I'm not a fashionista... I mostly just care about whether he's dressed appropriately to the situation, and if he's neat and clean.
I will admit I do start eventually noticing a guy's body more once I've known him for a while... for instance, I think my roomie has cute legs. ;) But it's still not a big deal to me. I'm more a tactile and aural-oriented person ('specially the former), not a visual one, when it comes to men and intimacy, anyway. Ironically, I'm more visually-oriented when it comes to everything else.
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: Jeysie on November 19, 2003, 04:31:43 PMI will admit I do start eventually noticing a guy's body more once I've known him for a while... for instance, I think my roomie has cute legs. ;) But it's still not a big deal to me.
That's a normal phase in that evolution, noticing more about someone else the more you see him/her.
/me thinks his legs are too hairy. ;D
Quote from: copycat on November 19, 2003, 04:47:48 PM/me thinks his legs are too hairy. ;D
I know several men with quite hairy legs, so don't be so critical of yourself. ;)
Peace & Luv, Liz
It would seem my chest's hair has migrated to my legs. ;) And it's not critique, that's just stating a fact.
Hee.
Well, hairy legs on guys isn't a big deal. Especially light-haired guys. Actually, hairy legs on women isn't a big deal either, it's just that Western society has become "programmed" to find that unappealing. (Although I'll admit my pants feel a lot more comfy after I've shaved, so it's not entirely just a cosmetic thing.)
Peace & Luv, Liz
I don't have any hair aversions myself, as long as women don't have handlebar mustaches. ;) Of course, a semi-decent hairdo is a must too, there are some hairdos that make me wonder where they came from (though they could be culture-based).
Quote from: copycat on November 20, 2003, 04:20:25 PM
It would seem my chest's hair has migrated to my legs. ;)
Wait till the hair from your head starts migrating to your shoulders :o It happened to my cousin :-\
Quote from: Jeysie on November 20, 2003, 05:03:20 PMWell, hairy legs on guys isn't a big deal. Especially light-haired guys.
While still called 'blonde', my hair is on the dark side of 'blonde', and due to the amount of hairs the color you see gets quite dark.
Quote from: Storm on November 21, 2003, 08:42:55 AMWait till the hair from your head starts migrating to your shoulders :o It happened to my cousin :-\
Hair
on my shoulders? I've got hair
under my shoulders already (in armpits) but not on top of it. 8)
I've got long hair on my lower body. ::)
Except my chest hair, though, that's taking a while to grow out. ;)
I have... hair. We'll leave it at that. ;)
Peace & Luv, Liz
Quote from: oldbushie on November 21, 2003, 08:44:54 PM
I've got long hair on my lower body. ::)
Except my chest hair, though, that's taking a while to grow out. ;)
... hahaha what?
long ??
Well, mostly an inch to an inch and a half. ;D
hahahaha wtf werewolf :P
Too much information :o :P
At least my hair is thin, really it is more like half an inch usually... it keeps me warm, that's what counts. ;)
I ain't a Wookie, but I'm no hairless surfer dude either. ;)
Quote from: oldbushie on November 22, 2003, 10:53:05 PMt keeps me warm, that's what counts. ;)
That's the function of the hair on top of my head: keep my brain & ears warm. :D
we need to split this thread lol, it became from height to hair hahaha
what would be the oddest place to grow hair!? I think I would go with ears :P, I remember when I was in highschool my chemistry teacher was so f***ing hairy he looked like a werewolf einstein!, he even had really bushy hair coming out of his ears... wtf hahaha, but I so loved that dude, he was brilliant :)!
Hair on the ears instead of inside of them is odd... it sometimes happens to men when they grow old.
I had a math lecturer who had hair on his neck. I found it really puzzling, since he was a young guy, and obviously used to shave... ::)
Quote from: oldbushie on November 26, 2003, 10:24:42 PMAll the same, I prefer a short-sleeved shirt to a winter coat in the summer, thanks. ;)
Ofcourse, so do I, however, it makes me sweat. 8)