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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #60 on: November 16, 2003, 07:50:41 PM »
ugh yeah your so right jeysie, but IMHO I do find - really large- breast to be a bit ackward, I mean, I think there is a limit when it goes a bit out of normal, no matter in what body :P


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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #61 on: November 16, 2003, 10:33:53 PM »
I'm always worried that those girls will fall over in a strong wind. ;)

I prefer proper proportions myself, tiny is as good as big as long as it fits the physique. ;D
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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #62 on: November 17, 2003, 11:14:41 AM »
Lol!

I personally think that guys should actually prop their heads up so they can actually see girl's faces...  Or maybe, even better, like a girl based on their *gasp* PERSONALITY?!

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #63 on: November 17, 2003, 11:44:10 AM »
Hee. I dunno. I never get mad at guys staring at my breasts, just amused. Besides, if I'm stuck having to "carry" them around, somebody might as well at least get a bit of enjoyment out of them. :suffer:

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #64 on: November 17, 2003, 03:53:07 PM »
I'm always worried that those girls will fall over in a strong wind. ;)

At least they'll have a soft landing  :P
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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #65 on: November 17, 2003, 06:02:42 PM »
I dig a girl's personality! I just get slightly distracted sometimes, especially if a girl dresses very immodestly... ;)
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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #66 on: November 17, 2003, 06:16:03 PM »
Hee. I dunno. I never get mad at guys staring at my breasts, just amused. Besides, if I'm stuck having to "carry" them around, somebody might as well at least get a bit of enjoyment out of them. :suffer:


UGH I SO HATE THAT, I hate guys staring at things noone freaking asked them to, plus if i dont like the guy or he pisses me off or annoys me wtf slap!  >:(



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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #67 on: November 17, 2003, 06:28:08 PM »
Heh. Honestly, I decided a while ago that getting all worked up over a guy who's being a real perv isn't worth it. I mean, think about it... no woman worth getting is going to go with a guy who acts like that to her. So I just shrug it off and laugh at what a moron the guy is being. If you do feel the need to say something, just go over and say something like "You know, you might almost be cute, but there's no way in Hell a girl as fine with me would get with a guy acting like you. So you should learn to shape up, or sleep alone." Then just walk off. ;D

Or you could even have some fun playing along with it. I got many afternoons of enjoyment as a teen playing with the mind of this one guy who used to always try to get me to sleep with him. :suffer:

Before you think ill of me, I'd never, ever play with a guy who I thought genuinely liked me... I've had far too much unrequited love myself to ever do that to someone, plus being cruel isn't in my nature. But honestly, if a guy is busy just thinking with his pants, I don't feel bad messing with his head (the one on his shoulders, natch) a bit.

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #68 on: November 17, 2003, 07:20:37 PM »
Hee. Well, I don't have a problem with somebody scoping me out... how else you gonna engage in a bit of flirting? I meant the guys who really go overboard with the leering and catcalling, where it's blatantly obvious they're solely looking for someone to engage in the "horizontal polka" with. ;) I mean, even "nice guys" want sex at some point (well, the vast majority, anyway), but at least "nice guys" are interested in limiting said friskiness to the right person to spend non-bed-romp time with as well. ;D

I totally love men... I'm definitely not the nutso militant feminist type who plants a steel toe in any guy who even looks at her. I do like when a guy thinks I'm pretty.

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #69 on: November 17, 2003, 07:51:59 PM »
I'm definitely not the nutso militant feminist type who plants a steel toe in any guy who even looks at her.

Ahh, that would be me  ::)
But I don't need to use any toeing. I have other ways to make them stop  ;)
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« Reply #70 on: November 17, 2003, 08:27:04 PM »
I'm sick of all the girls that won't stop talking about how hot some guys butt is.  So both genders do it.  But not all of them.
Like me.  :D :D

I never said I approved of women treating men superficially, either. Just that Say complained about men who leer at her, so I commented on that specifically. I play at being a drooling fangirl sometimes if I know my surroundings are open to that sort of humor, and I'll flirt shamelessly if I know the guy I'm flirting with is just joking around too. But I wouldn't humiliate or disrespect a guy.

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #71 on: November 17, 2003, 08:37:49 PM »
Yeah, that's the most important thing! I always respect people I'm around, though it's tricky with people who downcast me. I may rub elbows with a girl sometimes ;), but I still give her plenty of respect and I don't leer obtrusively.

"R-E-S-P-E-C-T, do you have respect for me?" -can't remember the singer though. :P

Some girls make me wonder what kind of respect they want, though. Apparently last year a girl dressed up in clear Saran wrap and nothing else one day, and there was a crowd of guys around her staring. I missed it though, probably because I have a natural tendency to avoid crowds... ::)
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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #72 on: November 17, 2003, 09:09:51 PM »
Heh. I always wonder about those women who wear scanty clothing and then whine because men are staring at them. I don't fall into the "She was asking for it" camp, but seriously, if you don't want to be stared at, why exactly are you walking around with your "assets" in near-full display?

Granted, in hot weather you may not want to wear as much. But there are ways to dress to keep yourself cool without looking "saucy", if you so desire. (I should know, I've employed many of them myself.) And if you have skin showing, well... anyone with hormones is going to stare at someone with a lot of skin showing, whether it's a man or woman doing the staring, or a man or woman being stared at. If you're attractive, what's wrong with other people looking at you, anyway? You could wrap yourself in a cocoon and never let anyone except your family and spouse see *any* part of you at all, but where's the fun in that?

I personally dress modestly, but flatteringly. I seldom wear stuff with even a moderate amount of skin showing (mostly because the flashiness inherent in showing a lot of skin doesn't suit my dislike for the spotlight), but I try to buy stuff cut to flatter my shape. I'll let the vast majority enjoy the basic way I look, if they are of the mind to do so, and save the real show for a guy I really like. And like I said, I don't have much personal use for my breasts, so somebody else may as well like them. Let the guys in general stare, and a guy I really like... well, ya know. ;) Why should I get uptight? I have more important things to worry about. I think people need to get a grip about sexuality in general. I don't think it's a good idea to treat sexuality as something completely casual to share freely with anyone, but neither is it good to treat it as completely bad.

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #73 on: November 17, 2003, 09:52:19 PM »
I agree, sexuality in general is good, at least when shared with the right person and not given out like candy.
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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #74 on: November 18, 2003, 10:01:02 AM »
well usually as I've seen the woman that wear that way its becuase they wanna be seen alright! :D but some of those that care to show too much no matter what, tend to fall into terms as erm... trashy or slutty when they over do it  :-X

I personally strongly dislike concepts as trashy, slutty and even like... erm... -showing way too much- sort of like? :P, Im very picky about how I look, Im a freak taking care of my hair, my skin, and yeah also my clothing, and I tend to avoid tendencies that as to put it nicely, just doesnt quite is my style  :-\, thats perhaps why I avoid it a bit myself, I think thats a lame attempt to get attention, and as very well you guys said, you can be sexy and attractive in so many ways that... why to do such thing anyways?, I so cant understand those kind of women myself  :-\
plus sexuality its not in what you wear, its in how you are ;)



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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #75 on: November 18, 2003, 11:42:58 AM »
"R-E-S-P-E-C-T, do you have respect for me?" -can't remember the singer though. :P

Aretha Franklin.

I like dressing nice and knowing I look sexy, but I don't want to nor do I dress to look slutty.  Gotta have some mystery there to still look good and make them interested in more! And to have to work to know you for that, too! ;-)

Well, sometimes a good butt is hard to find. And harder to see. I mean, with girls, there it is, right out for everyone to see, here's my chest! And it makes it easier for the perv guys to have a conversation without hardly looking at you. now what would they think if we had conversations and never stopped looking at their crotch or something? Sheesh!

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #76 on: November 18, 2003, 11:56:40 AM »
now what would they think if we had conversations and never stopped looking at their crotch or something? Sheesh!

(keels over laughing for a bit)

Actually, that reminds me of one day when me and a few of my gal pals were walking along playing an impromptu game of "Have you ever?". One gal asked, "Have you ever looked at a guy and wondered... ya know... how big he is down there?" We all sheepishly raised our hands. <G>

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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #77 on: November 18, 2003, 02:40:13 PM »
My own experience, I find it flattering when someone "looks me over", either male or female (especially female - he he he).  If someone finds me attractive, I'll take it as a compliment.  A quick look is what I'm talking about.  Not the ridiculous staring at you like you are a piece of meat.
Living in NYC, I get scoped out by WAY too many GUYS.  Like I said, I have no problem with them glancing.  I will look at them and smile - thank you for thinking me attractive.  And I move on.  It's when they STARE........and same with women.  When they STARE..............like they are undressing me with their eyes.  You can almost see what they're thinking - it's as if their eyes have become tiny television sets and you can see the porno playing out.  Not my cup of tea.  I don't like it and I won't do it to anyone else.  Besides, I watched a guy staring at a girl intensely as she walked by.  He turned around to look at her from behind as she kept walking.  While he did this, he was still moving forward and he wasn't looking where he was going.  He ran into a no parking sign.  Slammed right into it and fell to the ground.  I laughed so hard.

This doesn't mean I don't look ;).  Women are beautiful - pretty much every shape and size.  I love to look.  And I like to make eye contact with someone I find attractive and smile at them.  If they smile back - bonus.
I am happily married to Amy and she never has to fear me suddenly running off with someone - I have absolutely no desire to do so and never will (I'm very certain of this).  I can't even imagine my life without her.  But I will look.  And so will she (and she does).  I think it's healthy, natural and FUN :D.
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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #78 on: November 18, 2003, 04:29:07 PM »
After all, we are God's artwork. Should we not enjoy seeing his creations? ;)

I don't think I've ever been looked over by guys, that's kinda disturbing. :P But then, I'm a tad homophobic when it comes to blatantly homosexual acts like a guy staring at me or some weird guy trying to get a little too "close" to me. :P:P:P:P:P I prefer girls any day, they have better cushioning. ;)
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Re:How tall are you?
« Reply #79 on: November 18, 2003, 05:27:58 PM »
My own experience, I find it flattering when someone "looks me over", either male or female (especially female - he he he).  If someone finds me attractive, I'll take it as a compliment.  A quick look is what I'm talking about.  Not the ridiculous staring at you like you are a piece of meat.
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Living in NYC, I get scoped out by WAY too many GUYS.  Like I said, I have no problem with them glancing.  I will look at them and smile - thank you for thinking me attractive.  And I move on.  It's when they STARE........and same with women.  When they STARE..............like they are undressing me with their eyes.  You can almost see what they're thinking - it's as if their eyes have become tiny television sets and you can see the porno playing out.  Not my cup of tea.  I don't like it and I won't do it to anyone else.
Yeah I find that a bit perverted alright, plus that IT IS uncomfortable  :-\  no matter what


This doesn't mean I don't look ;).  Women are beautiful - pretty much every shape and size.  I love to look.  And I like to make eye contact with someone I find attractive and smile at them.  If they smile back - bonus.
I am happily married to Amy and she never has to fear me suddenly running off with someone - I have absolutely no desire to do so and never will (I'm very certain of this).  I can't even imagine my life without her.  But I will look.  And so will she (and she does).  I think it's healthy, natural and FUN :D.
Love is sooo much more than just attraction and it is hard to find that unique conection, its not just what you want and what and what you need what this person has to have, should also have the will to make things though, since nothing its easy its not just to find something precious, I think the hardest part its to make it grow and keep it, so when you do, its not to give things for granted but more like you do know who is next to you and what this person means to you leading to the fact to show yourself true and honest about your own feelings to that someone, if both sides click so good then they are a team so whatever happens that sort of things mean nothing at all since whats buildt its just better than that.




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