Weird Guy

[Storm]

Storm is attractive but she denies it all the time , just like Say denies

Come on... I'm factually unattractive. IRL I repel people, and darn proud of it too - there are absolutely no people I wish to attract, but many I wish to repel

You can't compare me to Say. After her "horror stalker stories" post, Say can't deny that people are attracted to her... whether she intends to attract them is a different matter  

[Jeysie]

I'm with Storm here, at least in spirit. I don't repel people, but I don't attract them, either. People just pretty much don't notice me. Well, unless I go out of my way to get the attention of a guy and ask him on a date, in which case I get rejected. (Seriously, I've only had one guy who ever said yes to me asking him on a date... and I later found out it was only because he was lonely after having just broken up with his girlfriend.) And I've never once had a guy ask *me* on a date.

No offense, but online, I think guys are willing to flirt with any girl who seems willing to take the flirting, so it doesn't mean anything.

Peace & Luv, Liz

[koko_99_2001]

I totally sympathize...I'm 20 years old and have never (yes, read that again) been on a date!  The guys just go head the other way.  I had one guy with whom I flirted back and forth with during our jobs as summer missionaries, but when the summer was over, we talked about it and he said he saw us as just friends  ...Took me quite a while and lots of praying to get over that.  Mainly b/c I found out that you can fall in love with anyone!

Catherine

[copycat]

Mainly b/c I found out that you can fall in love with anyone!

Yes you can, and you never know who until it strikes you.

[racx_00]

well im not attractive then cos i repel ppl, not on purpose but then like Jeysie said ppl dont ask me out, so im ugly

[Say]

I never understood the whole mindset of creepy stalkers. I mean, "normal" stalkers who just sort of follow you around and pester you, I can understand why they do that. (It's annoying as heck, but at least I can figure out their motivations.) But people who do creepy things like what happened to Say, I mean, WTF? Do you really think you're going to get a girl to like you by doing that sort of messed-up stuff? Yeesh.

As for me being attractive... I beg to differ. I mean, c'mon... isn't it a tad telling that the only guys who pay attention to me are all people I know online only?

Peace & Luv, Liz

it is honestly disturbing, I remember Joseph (the college guy) and I seriously cant believe how someone cut his wrist for me to prove what?! that he can fuking freak me out!?

and you know jeysie, they certainly cant see it as a bad way, in fact all the times it has happened to me (that I got to KNOW who they were, -the psychos- Joseph was a psycho) they actually asume you have to like it and you will just... go madly in love?! I mean, just cuz he gave me a flower covered in blood (his blood) means he loves me?!!?!?!? on top of that not JUST that, they DO believe they DO know you, for the fact they've been following you for like 3 to 4 months they think they got you all figured out, and they asume stupid bullshit about yourself, it is completly horrible, invation of privacy, its disturbing, seriously disturbing, and sad to admit I've had worse than him

good god, horrible memories, but anyhow, it doesnt means Im freaking beautiful!? in fact it only shows HOW HORRIBLE my luck with men is, and honestly, it freaking is, from ex's to dates to everything

[Jeysie]

Eeeugh, I feel sorry for you. But still, I guess it does mean you're not fugly... I mean, if you were fugly, why would they bother?

I'm sorry your luck with guys has been so bad. I may have crappy luck getting guys to date me, but I've had a lot of wonderful male friends over the years... it was like having a lot of sweet, lovely brothers.

Peace & Luv, Liz

[Yonkey]

I still wouldn't say it's completely to do with looks.  It's kind of like someone being so obsessed with someone for who knows what reason, to the point that it's irrational and just plain disturbing.  

It reminds me of the Eminem song, Stan.  Where there was some extremely obsessed fan that always wanted to meet him, but never did, nor got letters replied.  So, eventually he can't take it anymore and drives his car over a bridge, with her girlfriend who was pregnant with their kid.  

Might not be a true story, but I'm sure a similar kind of thing happens a lot.

[Say]

lol yeah with talented beautiful rockstars

Im neither of the mentioned there hahaha
disturbing subject

this brings back bad bad memories, I was just talking with Neil about it a moment ago and I had a shiver

[Jeysie]

Well, fine, obviously Say isn't all that horrible personality-wise, either.

So why don't we trade happy stories about guys, then?

Peace & Luv, Liz

[Say]

yay I like that idea....

I Dean cuz he's my best friend and he gets me I get him and he's the only one that ever trusted on me blindly and was there for me when I needed him the most

I Cesar cuz he's one of the most talented friends I could possibly have, I trust him and I respect him and hes super fun and nice and now I even like marillion lol

I Neil cuz he's a supah assistant, he so kick ass, he's there for me too (even though if he doesnt wants to hahaha) he's like assistant/friend/shrinker


I also lub Alex he's been my friend for so long by now! Rob cuz he's super uber sweet, James is my fav perv (even though he hates me with passion sometimes) Jason cuz he's super sweet with me too

... and there is someone else I adore with all my heart but I wont name him here.


guys can be nice after all

sometimes...

[Say]

you talk so much of harrison its like I already know him! I so would like to meet him

didnt he signed around here?

[J-ROC]

James is my fav perv (even though he hates me with passion sometimes)

I don't hate you at all.  Never have, either.  Passion or not.  Don't hate you.  I want your warming gay blanky surrounding me non-stop, to keep me warm...even when I'm not cold.

[Jeysie]

you talk so much of harrison its like I already know him! I so would like to meet him

didnt he signed around here?

Heh. Maybe someday he'll actually post!

I know he said he submitted a phrase to the contest... no idea what it was, though. Of course, er, I tend to hog the Net, so even when he is home he can't usually go online... (sheepish look)

Oh, well, you'll all get to hear his shibby voice eventually. Or you can pump Mike after for some objective thoughts on the guy... (I'm horribly biased in the matter, obviously. )

Peace & Luv, Liz

[Oldbushie]

I like Bushie for managing to have a crazier sense of humor than I do.

Peace & Luv, Liz

*hides his rubber chicken and the three-headed monkey*
...what sense of humor?