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Started by Say, November 10, 2004, 10:57:57 AM

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Louisiana Night

#80
I hope things get better for you Say. :(

THE GOOD: Erpy and I thought up a better word than "chaotic" and "hyper" to explain KQ9 chatting characteristics...

We aren't chaotic...

We aren't hyper...

WE ARE MANGOS! !!! XD :P

either that... or Robertas :o :P

FEAR OUR ROBERTAnes! ;P


okay, now I'm just scaring myself. :-X

Vipt

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
bad:

-> missing someone terribly and not being able to do anything about it but sit down and wait, this is killing me :(

Who are you missing terribly? Your fiancé? Just wondering...

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
-> lies, specially from close close realtives, and which is even worse to all this is the lies that screw you over :S you count on someone, then THE LAST MINUTE (literally) is like, "oh, you're on your own, it's your problem anyways"... gee, thanks.

Yes, lies are always bad. Especially when they're your own. Being lied to sucks as well though.  :(

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
-> today has been a living hell and it's ONLY 3 pm, all I want is to survive this day already

I'm sorry, Say! I'm rooting for your survival!  ;)

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
-> one boss is kinda pissed at me, the other one ditched me today and I got stood up at like 7 am :S and the other one is ignoring me :(

Yes, bosses can be difficult. But how could anyone be pissed at you, Say? If you shot my dog I still wouldn't be pissed at you (well, maybe that's a little too extreme of an example...) How many jobs/bosses do you have, BTW?

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
-> my parents being completly unsupportive bi.tches, they should be d**n happy that I managed to get such great jobs, yet they complain about absolutly everything... just because. They are making me feel horrible over stressed, and adding MORE crap into my burden... not fair, not fair :(

Ah, parents! Annoying, but you still have to love 'em. Maybe they just don't understand everthing that's going on in your life right now. Try talking to them about your stress level; maybe they'll understand and loosen up on you a bit. If you've already tried that and it didn't change anything, I guess I can't offer any other advice. Either way though, I Hope things will eventually get better between you and your parents.

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
-> I'm trying to mantain a good mood and stuff... but good god... I think I'm falling apart :( I can't smile right now and I'm so stressed that driving may not be a good idea right now, yet I have no other choice :S

Well, sometimes it's impossible to be in a good mood. Just be sure to stay cool; you don't have to always be happy, but exploding in rage or desperation never seems to make the situation any better. Be careful driving, too!

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
This all sucks  :'( sigh, I wanna cry
and I should get going :(

Sorry about your bad day, Say. Everyone has them at times. The usual advice of "just think, things could be much worse" never succeeded in cheering me up, so I won't give you that line. However, whenever I feel like I'm in utter desperation, I always try to remind myself that this is just one day; it will end, and better days will inevitably come again.

And if you feel like crying, I offer you my shoulder if you need it.  :)

Hope you feel better soon!
...

koko_99_2001

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 12:10:13 PM
ugh, what a bad day so far :(

-> I'm trying to mantain a good mood and stuff... but good god... I think I'm falling apart :( I can't smile right now and I'm so stressed that driving may not be a good idea right now, yet I have no other choice :S

This all sucks  :'( sigh, I wanna cry
and I should get going :(

*huggles Say* I'm sorry it's been such a bad day.  I hope tomorrow will be better.  Need a smile?  I have plenty to give to you.  Seriously, I'm told the faces I make into webcam are hilarious...so if you want to try, just let me know.  Maybe you can have a laugh.

*hands Say a box of tissues* just in case...They're the kind with aloe so it doesn't dry out and hurt your nose :P
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Catherine DaCosta

B'rrr

 :-\ there are still a lot of good things left Say, hope you feel better soon :S

Quote from: Say on November 15, 2004, 10:18:06 AM
THE FUNNY:

-> I forgot to say this but last night, Rob proposed a sex change! :D, he did say "if you plan to have a wee wee you may consider a sex change" lol, so that means he really really wants me to have a "thingy" lol :P... interesting. I can't believe I forgot to post it lol


:o :o :o o my!! I have to be carefull what I say to you from now on  :P ;-D

The GOOD: got the sweetest E-card ever!!  :) :) :) :)
The GOOD: got a very very sweet sms too!!  :D :) :D
~Mary Jane supporter~
~Legend~

Say

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 01:57:49 PM
Who are you missing terribly? Your fiancé? Just wondering...

Yeah

I miss him, my best friend and my friends in general... I don't know, I'm going though a weird phase of my life I guess :(


Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 01:57:49 PM
Yes, lies are always bad. Especially when they're your own. Being lied to sucks as well though.  :(

It screwed up my day, my savings, my time, my head, my humor... ugh, oh well, whatever :S

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 01:57:49 PM
I'm sorry, Say! I'm rooting for your survival!  ;)

I survived, I just feel kinda down right now

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 01:57:49 PM
Yes, bosses can be difficult. But how could anyone be pissed at you, Say? If you shot my dog I still wouldn't be pissed at you (well, maybe that's a little too extreme of an example...) How many jobs/bosses do you have, BTW?

As a matter of fact, I had troubles at work today... people DO hate me, and some stupid morons (yeah, 3 guys now) are trying to get me fired or something, so they're really pushing it to the limits with me...

Right now I have 3 jobs :S, I'm a language tutor in 2 different companies, these companies provide inside tutoring to big professional companies, one is independant and teaches individuals, all kinds of, and the other one teaches per company. I do say I have 3 jobs right now, both of those I have different bosses, and obviously KQIX, which is in reality the only thing I would love to sit down and do all day.

And, the weird fact is that... I have "fans" lol, that do stalk me even outside the office, and some that seems to "hate" me badly, I'm glad it's only 3 out of 250, at least :( but still... my boss had "a talk" with me  :'( I felt so bad, I locked myself in the bathroom to cry actually... lol, how lame :(

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 01:57:49 PM
Ah, parents! Annoying, but you still have to love 'em. Maybe they just don't understand everthing that's going on in your life right now. Try talking to them about your stress level; maybe they'll understand and loosen up on you a bit. If you've already tried that and it didn't change anything, I guess I can't offer any other advice. Either way though, I Hope things will eventually get better between you and your parents.

Screw that, today I just picked up my car keys and left, I am so tired, too damn stressed out and obviously too pissed to evne explain then ANYTHING, if they want to support me fine, if they don't well then just freaking don't period... I do take my own responsabilities and I can't take that kind of crap right now, I do feel bad, but I can't stop to try to explain myself every 5 secs, even though when THEY let me down.

The problem is that, they mean so much for me... I'm pretty much even LONER than what I've always been, so I'm getting somehow depressed :S

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 01:57:49 PM
Well, sometimes it's impossible to be in a good mood. Just be sure to stay cool; you don't have to always be happy, but exploding in rage or desperation never seems to make the situation any better. Be careful driving, too!

I kinda exploded today at work, I had a horrible... HORRIBLE moment at work, and things got extremely complicated... I blocked out, I couldn't really say anything good or show any emotion... but then a cool student (I could say one of the few that DO like me)arrived and he hugged me and I cried right away lol :S, I could somehow talk to him a bit and he tried to cheer me up and stuff, but honestly, it was such a crappy day it all together :(

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 01:57:49 PM
Sorry about your bad day, Say. Everyone has them at times. The usual advice of "just think, things could be much worse" never succeeded in cheering me up, so I won't give you that line. However, whenever I feel like I'm in utter desperation, I always try to remind myself that this is just one day; it will end, and better days will inevitably come again.

And if you feel like crying, I offer you my shoulder if you need it.  :)

Hope you feel better soon!

lol, thanks so much, that made me drop a few tears as I read actually, I'm such a dork :(


The good:

-> I'm already home... day is over :/
-> everyone support, thank you guys <3

The bad:
-> I survived the day but I can't stop feeling like a piece of crap :( even though nothing was my fault I can't help it


Say Mistage
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Louisiana Night

THE GOOD:AGDI chatroom 8)

THE BAD:spent WAY too much time there :P

I think I'm going to try to avoid it for awhile. :-\

Vipt

I'm a not quite sure I understand the whole "fan" thing you're talking about, Say, or anything about your work at the tutoring(?) companies for that matter. I don't want to be nosy though, so I'll leave it at that. The work environment you described seems kind of strange though. It can't be healthy for a company that they have employees going at each other's throats like that. And I still don't understand how anyone can be so vindictive towards you; you seem like such a sweet girl!  <3

I can't say I've ever had problems like the ones you're describing at any of the jobs I've held. Sure, I've had the occassional jerky co-worker whom I'd rather not be around, but I can't say I've had co-workers who collectively and actively sought my being fired. Luckily, I haven't been fired yet, though I've come close!  :(

Normally, I'd say that both those jobs sound like trouble, what with all the b.itching that's going on there against you, whether from your bosses or from your co-workers. But I don't know the whole situation, and quite frankly the situation that you have described quite confuses me, so I'll hold off on the drastic advice. Just try to stay cool at work, though it may seem impossible to do so at times.

Hope tomorrow goes better for you, sweetie! (Advance apologies if calling you "sweetie" sounds too patronizing. I didn't mean for it that way.  :-[)

BTW, would  <3 hugglez <3 make you feel better? I have some for you if you need 'em.  ;)
...

koko_99_2001

And, Say, you know you have my huggles and support!


The GOOD: The Blur finally got back with food!  Turkey!  mmmm...I was SO hungry!

The BAD: she got back three hours later than I expected her.
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The Unofficial The Silver Lining Official Sarcasm Cleaner Upper :cat:

Catherine DaCosta

Say

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 07:46:34 PM
I'm a not quite sure I understand the whole "fan" thing you're talking about, Say, or anything about your work at the tutoring(?) companies for that matter.

I teach english (amazing huh?) in two companies who ONLY teach professionals, which means, the students, are professionals, not kiddos or anything like that... one is general knowledge, the other one is a bit more comercial oriented.

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 07:46:34 PM
I don't want to be nosy though, so I'll leave it at that. The work environment you described seems kind of strange though. It can't be healthy for a company that they have employees going at each other's throats like that. And I still don't understand how anyone can be so vindictive towards you; you seem like such a sweet girl!  <3

Such is life, noone likes to see anyone doing good, they seem to get envious and jealous or something (at least here) I say without regrets that I don't have friends over here. Everyone is too nice and whatever, but if they can screw you over they just will, specially in my case, I've worked to get where I am without mommy's or daddy's help, so everyone tends to get really stupid about my professional background, because I'm only 22 years old yet my experience nd background is highly competitive

And yes, at work, I do have some students who act completly retarded towards me, I'm the only female advisor there (as in the only female teacher?) so... some male... get a little... primitive? one is mad at me cuz I refused his "offers" now he avoids me and has been putting bad words with my boss, the other 3 are 2 stupid kids (I don't know what are they doing there since the company learning structure is not designed for 16's kiddos) but oh well...

And on the other hand, I do have students that just can't get enough of me, they call me, and write me over msn, and email, and invite me out, and they love my classes and they ask to be always with me, and they just go by to visit me sometimes... it's really lovely of them, honestly

yeah, black and white I guess, gladly there is so much more of the positive instead of the bad, the only problem is that I am the only one "controversial" advisor, since noone really cares about the rest but having students to claim to be with me as well as with others to deny me has became a bit too much of a trouble for my boss I guess... and he had a "talk" with me today... oh well... :(


Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 07:46:34 PM
I can't say I've ever had problems like the ones you're describing at any of the jobs I've held. Sure, I've had the occassional jerky co-worker whom I'd rather not be around, but I can't say I've had co-workers who collectively and actively sought my being fired. Luckily, I haven't been fired yet, though I've come close!  :(

My colleagues are amazing, I can't complain about them, they are really adorable... the students are the conflictive ones :P

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 07:46:34 PM
Normally, I'd say that both those jobs sound like trouble, what with all the b.itching that's going on there against you, whether from your bosses or from your co-workers. But I don't know the whole situation, and quite frankly the situation that you have described quite confuses me, so I'll hold off on the drastic advice. Just try to stay cool at work, though it may seem impossible to do so at times.

Well... I just don't know what to think or what to do right now, honestly :( it even confuses me, I wonder... is there something wrong with me?! :(

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 07:46:34 PM
Hope tomorrow goes better for you, sweetie! (Advance apologies if calling you "sweetie" sounds too patronizing. I didn't mean for it that way.  :-[)

YOU CALLED ME SWEETIE! lol <3 <3 that was so uber cute :D

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 07:46:34 PM
BTW, would  <3 hugglez <3 make you feel better? I have some for you if you need 'em.  ;)

*hugglez* OMGILOVEHUGZ :)



Say Mistage
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Say

Quote from: koko_99_2001 on November 15, 2004, 07:53:21 PM
And, Say, you know you have my huggles and support!


THANK YOU! *hugz* you have no idea how good it makes me feel right now, I feel like everyone hates me or something lately :(

the good:

-> cookies

-> friends <3



Say Mistage
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Vipt

#90
Yes, cookies are GOOD!  ;D

Okay, here they are as promised:


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That's supposed to say "HUGGLEZ!" in case you can't tell. (It's a lot harder than you think!)

Don't worry though, Say, there's nothing wrong with you that any of us around here can see. And I doubt that many people "hate" you. Maybe a few hormonally challenged kids and a creepy insecure guy who are your students *seem* to hate you, but in all likelihood they're just looking for someone to take the anger caused by their own insecurities out on, and you just happen to be the unlucky but arbitrarily selected recipient. I'm guessing a little jealousy on their part as well.

I think I understand now a little better what you were talking about now. I just have thick skull that takes a little more effort than the usual to penetrate!  :P

You seem competent with your job though, and hard-working; always a good character trait. Once again, I hope tomorrow goes better for you. And if it doesn't, you can always come to me or Cat or some other caring person on the forums for sympathy. Who knows though? maybe tommorow will especially suck for me, and then I'll need your comforting.  :)
...

B'rrr

Quote from: Vipt on November 15, 2004, 10:08:25 PM
That's supposed to say "HUGGLEZ!" in case you can't tell. (It's a lot harder than you think!)

I know  :P

The GOOD: woke up early
The GOOD: ppl spamming this forum  :P
The GOOD: today... it's gonna be great!!  :D
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~Legend~

koko_99_2001

#92
The GOOD: only one class and clinic today (usually I have three classes and clinic)

The BAD: couldn't sleep last night :(
The BAD: just found out the girl who is bringing her laptop on the trip isn't rooming with me anymore :(  REALLY don't know how much I'll be around now...
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Catherine DaCosta

racx_00

THE GOOD: Getting better
THE BAD: No one online >:(
Knight of Jarada - Master Mind 8)
Assistant Manager of the TSL Asylum XD

koko_99_2001

The BAD: feeling depressed today...and have no clue why :-\
<3 Happily married to FataliOmega since July 11, 2009 <3

The Unofficial The Silver Lining Official Sarcasm Cleaner Upper :cat:

Catherine DaCosta

Kimmie

the bad- when someone i dont even know says mean things to me. i didnt deserve it.
thank you for making me unhappy, on a very very long day.

A$$hole >:(  :(
Shimmy to the Kimmie



I <3 Connor but he is beyond my reach!

Say

aww, thank you <3 <3

sorry about last night vipt, my computer crashed and I was kinda down so I thought it was a sign for me to shut up and log out :/


I really feel kinda crappy still, on top of my horrible stressing day, I got some psycho messgs from someone who I thought it was my friend, how wrong I've been lately, honestly :( someone who is your friend won't "negotiate" friendship,  and certainly won't force you to admit you're the piece of s*** you're not just for the sake to be right, and "allow" you to continue the friendship. Just because noone is as damaged as he is doesn't mean he'a almighty right and everyone who seems to have hope are wrong. But, it's pointless to say because to this person all women should just die, we're out to get men or something. How absurd and pointless.

The bad:

-> offline messages who are completly poisoned up, he even said this
QuoteI'm sorry that I put so much faith in you
it is funny because he never had, someone who appreciates you won't evaluate you and compare you 24/7 AND actually remind you how much of a pointless piece of nothing you are... maybe I am? but he's certainly noone to say so, because he has fallen so low to use everything he got told to eventually stab me with it, with friends like that I'd rather be alone for lifetime, seriously

-> my gum still hurts badly, I woke up today with a headache :S

-> They paid yesterday, and I'm already broke... :(


the good:

-> There are still few ones that do care? :(

-> Vipt's hugs


Say Mistage
Phoenix Online Studios

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koko_99_2001

Quote from: Say on November 16, 2004, 08:38:57 AM
the good:

-> There are still few ones that do care? :(

Say, I hope that by now you realize that shouldn't be a question.  We DO care <3


The GOOD: getting to talk to someone.  Just hearing their voice cheered me up.  Definitely brightened the morning!

The BAD: still feeling slightly depressed...but at least I'm not about to burst into tears like I was when I posted before.
<3 Happily married to FataliOmega since July 11, 2009 <3

The Unofficial The Silver Lining Official Sarcasm Cleaner Upper :cat:

Catherine DaCosta

Vipt

Quote from: koko_99_2001 on November 16, 2004, 09:24:23 AM
The BAD: still feeling slightly depressed...but at least I'm not about to burst into tears like I was when I posted before.

Sorry to hear it Cat. What's so depressing though? Seems like everyone around here is feeling bad, and it's making me feel kinda bad.  :'(
Well, I like to fancy that I have some sort of cheering effect on you guys when you're feeling down, however slight it be.

I haven't been having a bad day so far, but not really a good one either. Classes were boring, and I'll be going to work soon. And I don't feel like I slept enough last night, especially since I'm still recovering from a cold. Really nothing too bad though.

And Say, you don't have to apologize about anything last night; it was obvious that your connection got broken somehow. I had a good little chat with TheKnight for a while, but I ended up staying awake for *way* too long. Headaches aren't fun!  :(  Enough about me though. I'm sorry you're still feeling bad. And that "I'm sorry I put so much faith in you" message seems unduly harsh. With friends like those, who needs enemies? Well, that's a bit too clichè. It does sound like he (I'm assuming it's a 'he') is having major psychological problems right now though, so it's probably just the desperation speaking. I wouldn't take it too seriously.

And your gums hurt? I know how that feels. Did you have any oral surgery lately, like wisdom teeth pulled or something? I hope it's not gum-disease; I had a mild case of that once and it really sucks, especially when the dentist decides the only way to help is by tearing up your mouth with his pointy little instruments of torture!  >:(

And Kimmie: strangers who mock strangers just for the heck of it = losers desperately seeking attention. I realize that you don't really know who I am yet, but I felt it was appropriate. Nice neon-purple lettering, BTW!  ;)
...

Say

GUM DISEASE!? lol... woah... well... I hope is not that :S
no, I have all my wisdom stuff but some are still coming out which I thought it may be it, it is really painful, bleh


THE GOOD!

-> Hugs, really... my puppies hugged me today and that cheered me up greatly

-> I managed to get some news, and I feel a bit better today

-> I may have more than what I thought to show around here in december :)

-> Yeah... I've had a crappy couple of days, so what? lol, whoever who wants to be with me simple is and whoever who is not then just don't, just like that.

-> I'm trying to cheer up myself even though I'm feeling crappy pooh :P


THE BAD

-> headache is still kicking in (I think it's the gum stuff honestly) I already took some pain killers, hopefully they work!

-> Vipt thinks we're a sad bunch, we're not ;)... we're just normal people with real stuff going on, things happen, but as they happen I hopefully believe they go away as well :)



Say Mistage
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