Male or Female??

[B'rrr]

Are they.... hmmm... not sure.... better has nothing to do with intelligence, ..at least not for me ; )

[racx_00]

yes well every1 has their own opinions

[koko_99_2001]

I've voted Say!

Cat

[Say]

oh I know Im not complaining about the girls vote but I thought they were more guys lol

anyhow... GIRLS RULE! *happeh dances*

[racx_00]

Males suck , no offence Jason

[racx_00]

None taken

[koko_99_2001]

I know you weren't complaining, Say!  I thought you had asked who had voted, so I was announcing, to the world, that I had!  lol

Cat

[racx_00]

not like more females needed to vote though

[Yonkey]

I've only seen you bob, racx, rob, I think alex also voted and who else voted?

Meeeeeeeeeee!  I tied it at 4-4.  

[Jeysie]

Are they.... hmmm... not sure.... better has nothing to do with intelligence, ..at least not for me ; )

Peace & Luv, Liz

[B'rrr]

uh-oh.... I think I just hurt an intelligent woman ; ( ...didn't meant to honestly... I just wanted to say that a 'better' woman is not measured by their intelligence (ie. the more intelligent the better doesn't work for me).

True I do get very frustrated when talking to a simpleminded woman (or men for that sake... ; ) 'bout a 'heavy' subject. but even if you might have better conversations with a more intelligent woman doesn't mean she's better...

She could be though,.... but then again she could be very boooooring and dul and... see what I mean, better isn't the result of just one factor (intelligence).

hope you feel any better now ; )

[Jeysie]

Well, I *am* boring and dull... nothing wrong with the truth. But thank you for clarifying... your sentiment does make me feel better.

Peace & Luv, Liz

[B'rrr]

I notice that people often have a bad selfperception ; ) some may they think they are better then they are and others think they are less  

...hahaha, I mean , you say you're boring and dul... well that could be... for you. But others may disagree.

other examples:
Mango thinks she is sane ; )
Say thinks she's fugly

What one person thinks is boring might not be so to someone else. thus the *truth * is often viewed from a certain point of view...

[Jeysie]

You guys are used to listening to me babble in here, where you don't have to post unless you have something to say. In RL, and in real-time stuff, I'm pretty quiet and low-key. In RL, Harrison's always the one with the cool stories and witty comments... I'm just sorta in the background.

But yeah, maybe my self-perception's a little skewed. The problem is that nothing I do/say ever comes out the way it was in my head... so maybe it's still "good enough", but it's not "perfect/right" like it would be if I could get my imaginings to come out the way I want them to.

Peace & Luv, Liz

[MangoMercury]

I notice that people often have a brilliant selfperception ; )

For example:
Mango knows she is sane ; )
Say knows she's not fugly

You tell it like it issssssssss

[Yonkey]

You tell it like it issssssssss

lol, Dr. Phil?

I'm very much the same way, Jeysie.  In real life, I'm extremely quiet and low profile.  I only feel comfortable around people that I know or have something in common with so there's something to actually talk about.  I kinda envy all those good story-telling people, cuz I never have any interesting stories to tell.

Plus, there are a lot of times where I too can't express something perfectly or as elequently as I hear it in my head.  It's pretty annoying and frustrating when you can't get an idea across, but I think that's just something I'll get better and better at the more I do it.  

Online, it's a lot easier, because you have more time to respond, fix mistakes easily and even go back and re-read something that was said in case you didn't understand something the first time.  In RL, you just have to ask the person again and again to clarify which is irritating for both people.

Ok I think I just went off-topic. What I was trying to say is that intelligence has many forms and is measured in many ways.  I personally would find a simple-minded woman to be just as boring and dull as an extremely smart one.  Probably moreso, because I could at least learn something from the smart one.  

[B'rrr]

hmmm... guess we are already off topic since it isn't 'bout genders anymore ; )

I just wanted to say that if I was very intelligent I would likely to be more attracted to a very inteligent person. But if I was very simple minded I would hate that cuz the diffrence would be too big.

My point is that I'd be more comforteble to someone with the same level of intelligence. ...hahaha, you could say that how greater the diffrence is the more comfortable I would feel.... well that's not completely true cuz diffrence is what makes person intresting.

but that's why a 'better' person isn't bout how intelligent someone is or how boring (or not) someone is for there are many conceptions of 'better' ; )

hahaha ; ) hope you understand what I mean, cuz that would mean someone would ; ) Racx why did you ever posted this ; ) lol

Intelligent Ladies are Better

btw I don't really agree with you guys that it's easier online then ofline... cuz it gives me way too much time to think everything over... and over again. In RL I just say it.... and then pay the price... but it's said and done ; )

[Mary Jane]

I voted!  

[Jeysie]

Sorry, B'rrr, I guess I was just feeling a little defensive. It seems like every guy I've been interested in just doesn't like me, and it's usually 'cause they're not attracted to intelligent women. (And it's *intelligent* guys that I'm usually attracted to! ) Even my ex-boyfriend said he found my smarts to be intimidating.

Peace & Luv, Liz

[B'rrr]

hmmmm.... guess some people want a not so intelligent person, to find themself smart ; )