I am having the same problem, however, i have also figured out that the calendar shows that "last wed" is oct 8 and the calendar in the phone is now active. I still can't figure out how to make robert recognize this. I've played the tape over and over and tried using the phone on him to no avail. Also, i can't get robert to remember the victim in the photo. I believe i have everything right in the memories now and i've made the note materialize and played the song. Help!