TSL - Cease and Desist
Started by koko_99_2001, June 26, 2010, 02:22:51 PM
Quote from: ladidada on April 18, 2012, 10:43:29 AMQuote from: Haids1987 on April 18, 2012, 08:56:57 AM Why do your work moms think you need to be set up?Hm. I unno, maybe a myriad of things. Ive been down somewhat lately so I guess they think setting me up will make me happier. And I guess you could consider me the "male" version of the "girl next door." Mothers find me to have all the qualities in a guy that some one like their daughters deserves. And you know, its nice that so many people want to set me up with all their daughters and nieces or you know the cute beer girl at the golf course but.......has anyone actually asked me what kind of girl I like? NO!!!. I feel like people are setting me up not because they think we would "be great togehter" but more so because they KNOW some one who is single. Or rather I would be a great boost of confidence for them.I'm much more into quiet people, old souls, readers, grey area minded people instead of black or white minded folk, who don't care what others think and embrace their inner nerds. I totally heart "Kewl type of nerds" ^_^
Quote from: Haids1987 on April 18, 2012, 08:56:57 AM Why do your work moms think you need to be set up?
Quote from: writerlove on April 18, 2012, 10:36:47 PMAlso, on the making you happier tangent. One should have a a good sense of self and where they are in life before trying to date. If not, there's a risk of losing your whole identity because it's so invested in this other person. That happened to me and never again. I do miss that companionship and tenderness. But I'm not ready. I don't know fully who I am as an adult away from my parents and college. I need to figure that out first.
Quote from: writerlove on April 18, 2012, 10:36:47 PMThe good: I get to go on my family's vacation.
Quote from: Deloria on April 18, 2012, 09:28:43 AMI feel so left out. No one's ever tried to set me up with anyone.
Quote from: writerlove on April 18, 2012, 10:36:47 PMAh I've never been on a blind date either.
Quote from: ladidada on April 17, 2012, 10:46:00 PMQuote from: Deloria on April 17, 2012, 12:21:45 PMYeah, me too. I don't know why there's so much pressure to try to make it work. Years and years of my life wasted with not much personal growth. You really think you didn't get much personal growth (however slow it took to learn the lessons? I dated my first love 6 different times but I learned my lessons!) But yeah, :/ Sometimes its hard seeing the way things are or recognizing our own self-deceits.
Quote from: Deloria on April 17, 2012, 12:21:45 PMYeah, me too. I don't know why there's so much pressure to try to make it work. Years and years of my life wasted with not much personal growth.
Quote from: Deloria on April 23, 2012, 10:42:28 PMWhat was she like?
Quote from: ladidada on April 23, 2012, 11:22:38 PMQuote from: Deloria on April 23, 2012, 10:42:28 PMWhat was she like? she comes off a little bit too "I'm right, you're wrong".
Quote from: ladidada on April 24, 2012, 11:16:21 PMI might have to take you up on that offer Haids and transfer up to Seattle. I grew up in the same weather (My best memories are on rainy, cloudy days), and I believe Washington has no state income tax. Two pluses for me. Best of all, I could indulge my secret love of adventure games with somebody for once in my life!!! I have never met a person who has heard of KQ or SQ or PQ or the GK series. :/
Quote from: ladidada on April 24, 2012, 11:16:21 PMTHE CREEPY: Some woman was knocking on my door last night at 2:30 for 15 minutes. The heck I'm going to open up my door at 2:30 in a city life this!
Quote from: writerlove on April 25, 2012, 08:08:38 AMThe good: I may have to travel to Kentucky next week for a job interview. Mom wants Dad to travel with me (since it is a 7 to 8 hour drive from here). Still, looking forward to the possibility.
Quote from: ladidada on April 24, 2012, 11:16:21 PMTo answer Ms. Deloria[spoiler]She's bi and simply put its a turn off. Most bi folk I have known since high school tend to be way too under-sexed to stay faithful in a relationship. I have been cheated on enough.... But I suppose you could say I have presumptively assume between the pot and bi-ness, her dropping out school and general gut feeling....that she is not in my best interest.[/spoiler]
Quote from: ladidada on April 25, 2012, 10:25:02 PM Eh!? I wasn't trying to define lifestyles or pass off negative things like that. I've just had really bad experience dating bi-people... It's not very fun hearing from my friends, " Gosh, you're like the only guy I know who loses girls--- to other girls." But yeah, rereading what I wrote, I could have taken the time to chose better words to say the least :/ But-but-but I can tell I've really offended you. So I'm sorry and sorry like you wouldn't believe. If you could see in my heart of hearts... *puppy dog face* :/
Quote from: tessspoon on April 25, 2012, 01:03:02 PMThe AWESOME: The defense for my Master's degree went great! The GOOD: It's over with. The BAD: Still have to get through the rest of Parallel and Graphics classes.