The GOOD & BAD THREAD (VI)

[Rosella]

Eh!? I wasn't trying to define lifestyles or pass off negative things like that. I've just had really bad experience dating bi-people... It's not very fun hearing from my friends, " Gosh, you're like the only guy I know who loses girls--- to other girls." But yeah, rereading what I wrote, I could have taken the time to chose better words to say the least :/

But-but-but I can tell I've really offended you. So I'm sorry and sorry like you wouldn't believe. If you could see in my heart of hearts... *puppy dog face* :/

I'm sure you didn't mean anything hateful from it, but what you said really did come off as offensive and I thought that merited a response. Just keep in mind that even though you may have dated some bisexual girls with less-than-strict rules about fidelity, it just means you've dated some girls who weren't good fits for you.

Though for what it's worth, I've recently come to the decision that I'm actually a lot more comfortable with a guy dating a guy after me than dating a cheap knockoff of me (or worse, a better version of me).

But don't worry, no harm done (at least to me), and I don't bear any ill will toward you. I did just want you to keep in mind how some people might have far more of a right to be offended than I.

[writerlove]

The bad: Had an "I AM SO FAT" moment while out shopping today
The good: Plan to combat that with running at the gym after dinner.

[Haids1987]

The bad: Had an "I AM SO FAT" moment while out shopping today

Those moments suck!! And they always seem to happen when I'm bra shopping. Just breathe, love, and know that you are beautiful!

(Posted on: April 26, 2012, 07:31:35 PM)

I'm actually a lot more comfortable with a guy dating a guy after me than dating a cheap knockoff of me (or worse, a better version of me).

Impossible.

[Rosella]

The bad: Had an "I AM SO FAT" moment while out shopping today

Bleh. I know how that is. I can hardly go shopping anymore without bringing along someone to convince me I'm being neurotic. Incidentally, I haven't gone shopping in a very long time.

The GOOD: Finally having time to knit a dice bag for a friend now that the major projects are over and done with.
The GOOD: I'm up for a promotion at work.
The BAD: I'm not sure I can handle a promotion on top of being a full time student in a 4-year college.

[Haids1987]

THE GOOD: After a reeeeeeeeeeeally  long week, it's finally Friday.

THE BAD: Half of my weekend plans consist of going to Jennica's memorial tomorrow. 

THE AMAZING: My godson, Carson, is turning one tomorrow! Life is seriously f*cked up, but it does go on.

[Deloria]

The BAD: I'm so high and in so much pain.
The BAD: I was meant to go shopping tomorrow.
The BAD: I was meant to take an Antigone test tomorrow.
The BAD: I'm tired of putting my life on hold.

[koko_99_2001]

Unless Indiana Jones (or Han Solo, he's incredible in either form ) shows up on a flying unicorn to take me to Scotland, drops down on one knee in front of Dundas castle and gives me a pink sapphire engagement ring, the blow will be every bit as harsh as I expect it to be.

THE SAD: Getting older really, really sucks.  I was 21 when I discovered TSL and thought I was all grown up then! 

THE HOPEFUL: The sun is supposed to be out today and the flowers are sweetening the air all over the place. It's beautiful here right now!

THE INEVITABLE: With great beauty comes great suffering.  My throat has officially become a scratching post for pollen, and I'm that annoying sniffly kid person sitting behind you in class.

Haids, you're making me feel old!! I was about 19 when I first discovered TSL...I turn 29 next month

[darthkiwi]

The BAD:

The BAD: I'm so high and in so much pain.
The BAD: I was meant to go shopping tomorrow.
The BAD: I was meant to take an Antigone test tomorrow.
The BAD: I'm tired of putting my life on hold.

[Haids1987]

THE SAD: Getting older really, really sucks.  I was 21 when I discovered TSL and thought I was all grown up then! 

Haids, you're making me feel old!! I was about 19 when I first discovered TSL...I turn 29 next month

I'm sorry, Cat! But hey, at least TSL is aging right along with us. That's a positive thing for Phoenix!

The BAD: I'm so high and in so much pain.

[snabbott]

Haids, you're making me feel old!! I was about 19 when I first discovered TSL...I turn 29 next month

Cat:
1. CAT!!!!
2. You're so young!

The BAD: I'm so high and in so much pain.

[Haids1987]

THE BAD: I'M FEELING SO FREAKING IRRITATED I COULD SCREAM.

Nothing major, folks, so no worries. I'm just hormonal and am crashing down from a really emotional couple weeks...and Mother Nature was like, "Hey Haids, I have an A W E S O M E idea! Let's make you NOT start your period for the entire time you're going through your emotional stress, then the very day the memorial is over, I'll make you bleed like you've been slashed from the inside!!!"

Now I'm like, "DO PEOPLE HAVE TO BE SO LOUD WHEN THEY COUGH?! WHY DOES EVERYONE HAVE TO HAVE THEIR MUSIC UP SO MUCH? THE BASS IS KILLING MY BRAIN!!" Gaaaaaaah. Boys, consider yourselves lucky. If your wife/girlfriend/whatever is ever feeling this way, give her a bag of Hershey Kisses and personal space. Best advice I can give you.

[writerlove]

Hailey, I totally agree. Ah Mother Nature, she is a piece of work some times isn't she?

The good: Made it to my hotel
The bad: I had to drive through a monster rainstorm to get there
The good: Wireless at the hotel works
The annoying: I forgot my make up bag. Have to pick out some tonight.

[koko_99_2001]

*backs slowly away from Haids*

Let me tell you, birth control was one of the BEST things invented! I never even cramp any more Just the mild inconvenience of a monthly visitor.

Hey snabbot! Good to see you!

The COOL: Erik got a smart phone from work today...he is now important enough to have his own work phone...paid for by work!

The BAD: this also means he works crazy hours and goes in at 4 am sometimes...like this morning...and tomorrow morning...

[Rosella]

The BAD: This is one of those nights when I'm reminded why I'm not allowed to have access to razor blades.

[Delling]

The BAD: This is one of those nights when I'm reminded why I'm not allowed to have access to razor blades.

...because you'd cut somebody or... anyway

The BAD/SAD: next LoL patch has a flat Soraka nerf in it... but it's a nerf to both aggressive play AND passive sustain play... so it's just like they either 1) don't know what they want her to do or 2) just want to get rid of her entirely
The BAD: frustrated with LoL... actually, just frustrated in gaming lately
The BAD: depressed lately...
The WORSE: frustration in gaming (b/c gaming otherwise offers an outlet for frustration with life) + depression = not getting anything done

The GOOD: music on teh internets
The GOOD: getting some stuff done today at least

[Haids1987]

*backs slowly away from Haids*

Let me tell you, birth control was one of the BEST things invented! I never even cramp any more Just the mild inconvenience of a monthly visitor.

Haha, sorry for scaring you. I feel better today (I think). I've actually been recommended birth control by several friends , but I've never talked to the doctor about it, since I'm not sexually active. And also, since the doctor himself has never recommended it, I'm reluctant to bring it up.

THE GOOD: New day, new coffee, momentary sunshine (literally AND figuratively)

THE BAD: So we have a staff meeting tonight and I'm like, "Man, I'm a closer now, there's no way to get out of this!" I have been regularly skipping staff meetings for the last nine months, so since it starts at 6:30 and I'm already there till 6:30, I really have no excuse this time...

[Rosella]

The BAD: This is one of those nights when I'm reminded why I'm not allowed to have access to razor blades.

...because you'd cut somebody or...

I'm not a violent person. I'd certainly never attack anyone else.

[writerlove]

I hope you are feeling better Kelsey. *hugs* 

Hailey, you don't have to be sexually active to use it. I know a few people who take it for other reasons. My doctor offered to put me on it because I have terrible cramping. But because I am on two depression medications and therefore my hormones are being messed with. I don't want to mess that up possibly.

The good: Did well on my interview today.
The annoying: Have to go home and wait for him to interview two other candidates.
(Did I mention the waiting game is tedious?)

[koko_99_2001]

I agree with Kristen. I was on birth control before I was sexually active. There's nothing wrong with it, and when you're wanting to hold to the value of remaining a virgin until marriage, being on birth control didn't make the waiting harder (meaning, for me it wasn't more tempting to be sexually active because I was on birth control).

The GOOD: TCAP testing is over
The GOOD: four more weeks of school
The BAD: no idea about my job situation for next year.

[Haids1987]

I agree with Kristen. I was on birth control before I was sexually active.

Perhaps, then. Thanks, ladies! I NEED to be regulated. My periods are all over the place and I hate it.

The BAD: no idea about my job situation for next year.

Eeesh! That's scary!

And Kelsey...

THE SPRINGTIME: Allergies are heeeeeere! 'Ello, itchy eyes, sneezing, and stuffy nose!